For most of my life, I hadn’t truly loved myself. I was the “yes” girl — the people pleaser, the good friend, the one who went out of her way for everyone else while abandoning myself. That pattern started with childhood wounds of being left for simply being me. From there, I spent years chasing approval, hoping others would validate my worth.

At 27 (2019), everything shifted. My relationship at the time was ending. I had already begun diving into astrology to better know myself. I had a uterine fibroid removed and went plant based to prevent the fibroids from coming back. So, health became priority in my life (because I want kids). Most of all, I began practicing self-love through sensuality and sensual movement. As I was growing in self love and learning who I was (what I liked, what I didn’t like, etc) I was also reflecting on my past relationships and how I loved myself in them… I then began asking for what I truly wanted while I was in a new relationship (in 2023), and I wasn’t receiving it. I knew deep down: it was time to move forward, to grow on my own, and to finally build love for MYSELF. That was the moment that cracked me open.

For years, I had lived in my masculine — as an athlete, a soldier, a fighter. I even battled an eating disorder that left me starving during the week and binging on weekends. But when I turned inward — through tantric-inspired healing, sensual dance, and self-touch — I began to reclaim my feminine essence.

The parts of me I thought were “wrong” — my curves, my skin, my quirks — became the very things that made me magnetic. Through movement, adornment, and sacred ritual, I rewrote my story. I didn’t just learn to love my body — I expanded into loving all of me.

Now, I feel the sexiest and most confident I’ve ever been. I nourish myself with what I eat, what I listen to, what I wear, and how I create the spaces around me. And that’s why I created Sensual Soul Flow — a sanctuary for women who are ready to stop pleasing others and start pleasing themselves.

Through sensual movement, adornment, and environment, I guide women to awaken their feminine energy, activate their sacral chakra, and celebrate their divine essence. This is where we alchemize pain into power, insecurity into confidence, and self-doubt into unapologetic self-love.

Because the truth is: when we deeply love ourselves, the world can’t help but reflect that love right back.